Here's what we found:
The youth has no role models, not among public personalities, not among the elders, and not even among their friends or acquaintances. They reckon that being influenced by external factors is not probably cool. It is important for them to be presentable, which includes adopting to the latest trends very much. But, they also seek ways of adding their personal touch and making subtle statements of difference in what they wear, how they talk and where they go. Yes, they want people to take notice of them, especially people from the opposite gender and often from their own close peers, but they believe more in making an impression through their personality than their outward appearance (well, outward appearance becomes just a projection of what lies inside).
Movies? Of course, anything available in DVDs (especially if they feature one of the Bollywood Khans - Shahrukh, Amir, Salman or Saif). The Khans and a number of cricketers, especially Ashraful, are big. But do they impress enough to generate followers? Not really, not much. How about gossips? It's fun, but mostly stays within the group (in case of girls, it also involves celebrities). Who is making pass at whom is a good conversation topic, especially if it featured damaging results. Pretty much conforms to the stereotype here, they do (apart from the sporting bit). The future? May be... well... not much... not really. For younger kids discussing future mostly means if they will be separated by separate schools, for the slightly older it is more about which place they are moving to (London? Dhaka? Uttara? It can be anywhere). With an increasingly large number of population moving locations it makes perfect conversation topics. And, ahem, how about recreational drugs? Booze and ganja on occasions, but venturing beyond that happened to few and happened only once (it's pretty hard to get honest answers anyways).
Deshi is in, very in. Starting from wearing "Amra Bangladesh" wrist bands to wearing beaded bangles and saffron kurtas, it is in for many people. A statement? Decidedly looks like one. Hip-hop and grunge are very in, too. You can tell that by the music blaring from their cellphones and CD players, as well as the Jeans that barely manages not to fall off, and piercing too (amazingly, multiple ear piercing can be found even in the old parts of Dhaka and Chittagong, both among guys and girls). Brands matter very much (valid more for the guys, as girls go more towards customization and experimentation). Increasing homogeneity of the youth may be one big reason (aspirationa rural young women see "parties" and "parlors" as major factors in their lives). It is easy to see that more expensive brands (Diesel, Armani, Mont Blanc, Gucci, Esprit, Davidoff, Rolex, FCUK and more in that line) are popular with more affluent of them, while the less advantaged go for the less expensive brands (Bangabazaar for instance) or counterfeit products carrying big-brand logos. Strange new brands are emerging across affluence levels like T-shirts sold at Aziz Market.
They don't conform to their parents values (naturally, their parents come from before the age of satellite TV, cellphones, DVDs and the Internet), or their teacher's advise (well, it's not the education that makes the man, it's what burns within). But, interestingly they are mighty impressed by the virtues of their parents (though the identified virtues vary wildly), though a bit skeptic about the possibility of adopting those virtues. More interestingly, many of them feel that listening their parents in the past would have done them much good (anyways, what's gone stays gone for them). They also are impressed by the teachers who made them work the hardest. Apparently not too proud of what they are and regretting what they could have become (yes, it's the world that wont allow them to grow in spirit and to show their true colors). Almost everyone is a late riser, and most would readily admit it to be "wrong".
They still are happy that their parents don't assert their opinions too much, and often let the youth take decisions about their lives (surprise, surprise). They believe they know way more than their parents about a lot many things (and they are right, too). Often their parents recognize that knowledge as well (cellphones, electronics, grad schools and eateries are some areas of knowledge disparity). Bottled-up, a little low on self-esteem, and lazily optimistic, they really can't tell where they want to be five years from now. But, well, that doesn't bother them either.The youth is still disenfranchised, like ever, but they are not really that restless anymore.
Here's what they found:
Pepsi in the end decided to run a research on their own, and (wow) did they find wonderful facts out! Check.
The Cultural Context
Bangladesh is a poor country with all the problems that plague a poor country: political instability, lack of economic growth, corruption, unemployment etc.
A Patriarchal Society: The father’s word is a line in stone and is not questioned
A male-dominated society: Preference is clearly given to males in terms of education and freedom of movement
Pro-Pakistan. Anti-India: The inflation raise is attributed to lack of aid
Bangla Pride: The aspiration is for economic prosperity but not to break away from the conservative social, cultural and religious system
The Bangladesh Youth
- The Ungeneration: The youth does not see themselves as a collective. Generation automatically refers to the next or the previous generation.
- The Traditionals: “We learn by copying our parents. We don’t experiment on our own. Parents don’t want us to.” They aren’t really open to accepting new things:
- The Unrebels: Parental interference is to the extent of hair-styles and the kind of clothes that they wear. Choices of education, career, and later marriage, are determined by parental influence.
- The Safe-Players: They would prefer stable govt. jobs; entrepreneurship is a ‘no-option’ option. Newer careers are still not available in full gusto though marketing and management are gaining importance. Studying abroad, in the USA, UK and Australia is aspirational.
- The Patriots: “Build yourself. Build your country.” was the most resonant sentiment.
- The Secluded: English hasn’t picked up as a language or influence.
To be socially active (Individual fame & glory and altruism)
“I want to be remembered when I die”
“I’d like to help poor/old people. I don’t like the concept of old homes”
To be something different
“I want to be a designer”
Personal growth
“I want to talk in English”
Meeting the Basics
“I will quit my job and start a business because the salary I am getting doesn’t help to manage my living standard.”
I wrote this in 2008.